Attached at the Hip

5-Steps for Safety

My oldest son is almost 8, and up until a couple of weeks ago, has ridden in a 5-point harnessed safety seat his entire life.  He started using a booster in his grandma's car a few months ago, but it wasn't until our 2-year-old needed a bigger seat that the car-seat-shuffle required us to move G out of the harness and into a high-back booster.  At his age, I'm pretty comfortable with this, and I like that his booster has deep side-wings for added upper-body support and side-impact protection.  The trickiest transition, though, is the one yet to come - when is he ready for an adult belt, only?

The answer to that lies in 5 Steps (aka, The 5-Step Test), a simple, easy to learn test to evaluate a child's fit in every vehicle they ride in.  It's necessary to evaluate each time in each vehicle because, as counter to modern myths and state safety laws as it may be, age and weight have nothing to do with appropriate fit in an adult belt.  The 5 Step Test takes into account the size of the child, vehicle dimensions, and belt geometry, all of which are essential to make a good fit.

So, as I re-learn these 5-Steps and teach them to my son, I'd like to also share them with you.  I found an excellent blog post with not only the 5-Step Test but also pictures of several children in both belts and boosters.  The pictures are a great aid to help you evaluate fit, and demonstrate the difference between belt-only fit and fit with a booster seat.  Check out the CarSeatBlog to see the 5-Step Test and learn how to use it!

Remember, motor vehicle crashes are the number one killer of children in the United States.  Keeping children well-protected is the single biggest factor we can control in minimizing harm and saving lives.  For more statistics, see the CDC's Fact Sheet on Child Passenger Safety.

Not-So-Medical Advice

I have been a proponent of natural/alternative/complementary therapies for quite some time. In fact, over the last 5 years, we've gone from a household of mostly conventional medical treatments to mostly alternative treatments.  We use a combination of homeopathy, herbs, amino acids, vitamins, and other nutrients to treat ailments on a daily basis.

Still, it can be hard to remember the details of each remedy and which situations it is best suited for.  That's when I turn to my favorite resources for treatment recommendations.  I keep Smart Medicine for a Healthier Child on my bookshelf at the ready for treating the kids, as well as Smart Medicine for Healthier Living, the adult counterpart.  These two volumes are arranged in an easy-to-use format, with information on common (and some not-so-common) ailments, along with a variety of treatment options.  Having details on conventional medical treatments side-by-side with herbal, homeopathic, and nutritional therapies is very helpful in making informed decisions.

For times when I don't have my books at the ready, I've discovered the University of Maryland Medical Reference on alternative medicines to be a very thorough and handy tool.  You can find details on specific remedies (such as the echinacea and astragalus that I dosed my kids with today), as well as information on the types of treatments (a very readable history and background of homeopathy is included), and even data on nutrient depletions that may be caused by other drugs.  With an iPhone app available, too, the UMMS Medical Reference is an excellent go-to resource with a bounty of balanced information.

As you explore options for your own family, I hope these resources will be helpful to you, too.

Happy Days

Someone on a homeschool forum just posed the question, "Remind me all the good things about homeschooling!"  We're at a really fun place right now, so I came up with a quick list and thought I should share it.  :)

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I love that my kids can beg me at 10pm to do school, and we can sit down and do some, just because we want to. 

I love that I do NOT have to be up at the crack of dawn to shuffle them out the door to another location, and then go get them again a few hours later (we are done with mother's day out, too, for that reason!).

I love that I can work with them to figure out what THEY need, and how best they learn, and find one of the many curricula or resources out there to help them.

I love getting big boxes of books at the start of the school year. 

I love that our school year can start and end whenever we feel like it.

I love that we're *always* learning, and that even my kids know school isn't just when we're sitting around reading or doing bookwork.

I love that they're excited about learning together (my 4.5yo is officially starting K now!).

I love exploring topics with them that they are interested in, and finding ways to increase their love of learning.

Of course, it has its downsides.  But I'm really happy that, right now, we've got lots of up-sides! 

Reprieve

The CPSC has issued a one-year reprieve for implementation of the testing portion of the CPSIA.  This means that products are still required to be manufactured within the limits set for lead and phthalates, but manufacturers (both large and small) are not obligated to do the expensive testing that was originally laid out in the CPSIA legislation.  They'll still be liable if they're selling dangerous toys, but those industries that have never made dangerous products to begin with have some breathing room.

Of course, that doesn't mean the fight is over.  If nothing else changes, in February, 2010, the cottage industries and small manufacturers will again be up against the clock in the fight to save their businesses.  The CPSIA still needs major amendments to protect work-at-home businesses, small manufacturers, libraries, and suppliers from the ramifications of the bill as it is written.  With continued testimony and evidence from the industries involved, my hope and prayer is that this bill will see the revisions needed in the near future.  Then, our children will be adequately protected from the harmful products, without being banned from those that never posed a threat.

Save Handmade - CPSIA Blog-in Day

Some of the wonderful artisans of etsy have designated today as a blog-in day to raise awareness of the impending ramifications from the CPSIA legislation.  This is a major law that will affect everyone if not amended.  Read on to see just how it may affect YOU!

As parents and concerned citizens I’m sure most of us at one time or another have been confronted with the question of lead poisoning. But have you asked yourself what your government is doing to protect your children from lead contained in toys? The answer? They're banning toys, taking books from schools and libraries, hurting low income families, killing entrepreneurial spirit and risking putting the economy in an even greater depression than we've seen in decades. I'd like to introduce you to their solution: the CPSIA.

Do you know about the CPSIA? No? Then I ask you to take a few minutes to find out about it.

The CPSIA stands for Consumer Product Safety Improvement Act, a new set of laws that will come into effect on 10 February, 2009 and will impact many, many people in a negative way. Make no mistake, this is very real. View it for yourself. If Forbes, the American Library Association and numerous other media are paying attention, perhaps you should too. 

How will these new laws affect you? Well, here are a few examples: 

To the Parents of Young Students:
Due to the new law, expect to see the cost of school supplies sky rocket. While those paper clips weren't originally intended for your student to use, they will need to be tested now that your 11-year-old needs them for his school project. This law applies to any and all school supplies (textbooks, pencils, crayons, paper, etc.) being used by children under 12.

To the Avid Reader:
Due to the new law, all children's books will be pulled from library and school shelves, as there is no exemption for them. That’s okay though, there's always television. Our children don’t need to learn the love of reading after all.
Article from the American Library Associationhttp://www.wo.ala.org/districtdispatch/?p=1322

To the Lover of All Things Handmade:
Due to the new law, you will now be given a cotton ball and an instruction manual so you can make it yourself since that blanket you originally had your eye on for $50 will now cost you around $1,000 after it's passed testing. It won't even be the one-of-a-kind blanket you were hoping for. Items are destroyed in the testing process making one-of-a-kind items virtually impossible. So that gorgeous hand-knit hat you bought your child this past winter won’t be available next winter.

To the Environmentalist:
Due to the new law, all items in non-compliance will now be dumped into our already overflowing landfills. Imagine not just products from the small business owners, but the Big Box Stores as well. You can't sell it so you must toss it. Or be potentially sued for selling it. You can't even give them away. If you are caught, it is still a violation.

To the Second-Hand Shopper:
Due to the new law, you will now need to spend $20 for that brand new pair of jeans for your 2-year old, rather than shop at the Goodwill for second hand. Many resale shops are eliminating children's items all together to avoid future lawsuits.

To the Entrepreneur:
Due to this new law, you will be forced to adhere to strict testing of your unique products or discontinue to make and/or sell them. Small businesses will be likely to be unable to afford the cost of testing and be forced to close up shop. Due to the current economic state, you'll have to hope for the best when it comes to finding a new job in Corporate America. 

To the Antique Toy Collector:
Due to the new law, you'd better start buying now because it's all going to private collection and will no longer be available to purchase. “Because the new rules apply retroactively, toys and clothes already on the shelf will have to be thrown out if they aren't certified as safe.”http://online.wsj.com/article/SB123189645948879745.html

To the American Economy:
Already struggling under an economy that hasn’t been this weak in decades, the American economy will be hit harder with the inevitable loss of jobs and revenues from suppliers, small businesses and consumers. The required testing is far too costly and restrictive for small businesses or individuals to undertake. 

To the Worldwide Economy:
Due to this new law, many foreign manufacturers have already pulled out of the US market. You can imagine the impact of this on their businesses. 

If you think this is exaggerating, here is a recent article from Forbes
http://www.forbes.com/2009/01/16/cpsia-safety-toys-oped-cx_wo_0116olson.html

And for those of you prepared to be stupefied and boggled, The New Law
http://www.cpsc.gov/about/cpsia/cpsia.html

Did you know? If this upsets or alarms you, please react.  You can get a badge (and tons of other helpful info) in the Etsy CPSIA Action Kit:
Download the PDF file here.
http://www.etsy.com/storque/media/bunker/2009/01/CPSIA-Etsy-Resources.pdf

Positively Cute

If you've read much here, you know I love the combination of cute and sustainable.  I just discovered one of the best examples of this fusion in the organic cotton clothing by Positively Organic.  I am particularly enthralled with the vivid colors and bold graphics of their Earthline collection.  While my little guy really doesn't need more Christmas gifts, I'm sorely tempted to order the Snow Onesie Giftset for him in Aqua.  It's just way too cute!  And the graphic is subtle enough to be worn in any season.

And what's better than adorable, organic cotton kids' clothing?  How about clearance adorable cotton kids' clothing?  I'm very impressed by the deals on their closeout and seconds!  When you can buy one for $12 and 3 for $24, it's very hard to resist these offers!

More on Saving Toys

The Handmade Toy Alliance is working feverishly to get an amendment to the CPSIA, which would effectively shut down all handmade and small toy manufacturers in the US, and shut out all imported toys from Europe and Canada.

When writing to your lawmakers, their sample letter is a very easy and effective form to use to inform and encourage the lawmakers to think twice before passing this bill as it stands.  The full text of the Handmade Toy Alliance's Proposal to Improve CPSIA is also available to view.

Already emailed your legislators?  Sign the petition that will be sent to the Consumer Products Safety Commission, too.

And let me know what your legislators have to say.  I received this "canned" response to my contact with Senator Kay Bailey-Hutchison of Texas.  It's very concerning to me that she thinks this legislation "struck a good balance between these goals [of ensuring "that federal laws do not go further than necessary when attempting to guarantee the safety of consumer products"]."  In fact, it will shut down an entire industry, costing countless jobs, revenue, and the ability to make choices in our purchasing.

Dear Mrs. Barrett:

Thank you for contacting me regarding consumer product safety.  I welcome your thoughts and comments on this issue.
            
Recent recalls of various consumer products, especially children’s toys, have prompted a review of how Americans are protected against faulty products.  Created in 1972, the U.S. Consumer Product Safety Commission (CPSC) is the independent agency of the federal government charged with protecting Americans against the unreasonable risk of injuries associated with consumer products.  The CPSC fulfills its mission by researching potential hazards associated with consumer products, banning dangerous consumer products, developing voluntary and mandatory standards, and issuing recalls of products already on the market.  This agency has the authority to regulate the sale and manufacture of more than 15,000 different consumer products - such as toys, cribs, power tools, cigarette lighters, and household chemicals. 
 
To address the concerns raised by these recalls, the Senate and the House of Representatives developed separate plans to enhance the U.S. Consumer Product Safety Commission’s ability to ensure our nation’s consumer product safety.  In the Senate, S. 2045, the Consumer Product Safety Commission Reform Act of 2007, was introduced by Senator Mark L. Pryor (D-AR) on September 12, 2007.  H.R. 4040, the Consumer Product Safety Modernization Act, was introduced by Representative Bobby L. Rush (D-IL) on November 1, 2007.  
 
Between March and July 2008, I worked on the bills as a member of a conference committee between the House and the Senate.  At the end of July, we came to a compromise, which passed the House and Senate on July 30 and 31, respectively.  The President signed the Consumer Product Safety Improvement Act of 2008 into law on August 14, 2008.  
            
            The Consumer Product Safety Improvement Act includes a five-year reauthorization of the CPSC and provides more than $620 million for the agency to implement new rules, buy new equipment, and modernize its labs.  Additionally, this funding will be used to increase the CPSC personnel to at least 500 from 367, and it will place additional inspectors at ports of entry and in foreign countries to inspect manufacturing facilities. 
            
According to the CPSC, paint and similar surface coatings of children's toys containing lead have historically been the most commonly recognized sources of lead poisoning.  Currently, paint and other similar surface coatings that contain more than 600 parts per million (PPM) lead are banned by the CPSC.  Under the new law, the allowable amount of lead in paint is reduced further in coming years, and the lead ban is expanded to regulate the surface of the products as well as the paint.  Currently, when the CPSC orders a recall, they will not announce it publicly for 30 days to permit manufacturers an opportunity to address the concerns of the CPSC and to prevent certain proprietary information from being released.  The final measure that we agreed to cuts this time period in half to 15 days, in order to allow information to reach the public more quickly.  
 
Should a manufacturer be found guilty of violating consumer product safety laws, the bill we passed provides for an increase in the cap on civil penalties that can be levied against the manufacturer and provides expanded criminal liability.  As an additional enforcement tool, the measure allows individual State Attorneys General to bring actions against manufacturers for violations of certain federal consumer product safety laws.  The coordination between the state Attorneys General and the CPSC means that we will have a greatly enhanced monitoring and enforcement framework to protect the public against dangerous products, and to enforce recall orders once they are issued, by making sure that retailers are promptly removing the dangerous products from their shelves.
 
As a mother of two young children, I empathize with parents who are anxious to protect their kids against unsafe products.  As a U.S. Senator, I must also ensure that federal laws do not go further than necessary when attempting to guarantee the safety of consumer products.  I believe this bill struck a good balance between these goals, and I will continue to work to protect our children from unsafe products.   
 
I appreciate hearing from you, and I hope that you will not hesitate to keep in touch on any issue of concern to you.

Sincerely,
Kay Bailey Hutchison
United States Senator

284 Russell Senate Office Building
Washington, DC 20510
202-224-5922 (tel)
202-224-0776 (fax)
http://hutchison.senate.gov

Save American Toys

Do you love American-made toys?  Do you like to support mom-and-pop businesses?  Do you value choice in the marketplace?  If you want to continue to have options for toys (and other children's products like clothing), then please read about the new legislation that would put these small companies out of business.

While the intent of this bill that's before Congress is to increase the safety of children's products - those made in the USA and abroad, including in Europe - the unintended effect will be the closing of doors of countless companies that have, in fact, no problems with their toys to begin with!  One German company has already announced that it will be pulling out of the American market, yet European toys are already subject to high scrutiny and are far safer than most toys currently available here in America.

We need to make every effort we can to have this legislation amended such that it does not harm our small businesses, our children, and our economy.  There are links as well as a sample letter in the article, and you can also use the following links to write to your representatives.

Contact your Senator and your Representatives.  Let them know that these businesses are a vital part of the American economy, and that they need to be protected from over-reaching laws.  Then forward the information on to your friends and colleagues.  The Committee meets Wednesday, December 10, at 10:00am, so act quickly!

Oompa for All

My two youngest boys both have birthdays in September, so I've been on the hunt for just the right thing for each of them.  Because I'm concerned about the effects of everyday toxins, I try to avoid plastic toys, and I always avoid character-related toys because of the commercialism.  This, of course, means there aren't a lot of toys I'd like for them in most toy outlets.  The good news, though, is that there are some fabulous stores, like Oompa, online with a vast array of wooden, cloth, organic, and European-made toys.  I've been spending quite a bit of time there, lately!

Oompa has long been one of my favorite places to find items for the boys.  Their toy selection is huge, with beloved brands such as Haba, Blabla, Käthe Kruse, and Plan Toys.  We've successfully replaced many of our older plastic toys with gorgeous wooden versions that are so much more appealing to the eye, as well as to the touch.  While the prices are obviously higher for responsibly made wooden products, I try to remind myself that a few well-made toys is far better than piles of cheap, potentially toxic toys.

And Oompa is not just toys.  Getting ready for school?  I was thrilled to find their Back to School section, replete with non-toxic alternatives for everything from backpacks to study desks to paints and crayons.  I think my oldest son would adore the solar system desk pad from Haba.  I've been tempted by the modern-yet-practical desks from P'kolino, as well.  Indeed, there are few things from Oompa that I would not welcome in my home!

If you're as thrilled with Oompa as I am, the good news it that they're offering $5 off on orders over $40 using code "BTS2008" (expires 8/31/08), and shipping over $65 is always free.  Now the only trouble is narrowing down what to get!

To be Human is to be Fallible

I've finally picked up The No-Cry Discipline Solution by Elizabeth Pantley (author of such great resources as The No-Cry Sleep Solution and Kid Cooperation), which has been sitting beside my desk and beckoning to me for several weeks. The book promises to be excellent, if the first few pages are any indication. I'd like to share a few of the quotes that jumped out at me from the section, "Banish the Myths."

You could do absolutely everything right. In fact, you could be a truly magnificent, spectacular, utterly faultless saint, and your child would still misbehave. The truth is all children misbehave. All children make mistakes. All children will whine, fuss, and have temper tantrums. This is true because all children are human beings--young, inexperienced, naïve human beings. And to be human is to be fallible--to make mistakes, to make poor decisions, and, hopefully, to learn from these. (page 9)

Parents are people, and people are not perfect. No matter how many wonderful skills we have, no matter how much knowledge we have, there will be many times when our emotions interfere and we don't react in the best ways. As a matter of fact, the more we know, the more critical we are of ourselves. We begin to see the mistakes more clearly and judge our own faults more harshly. The best parents are the ones who try the hardest, yet they judge themselves by the strictest guidelines. (page 14)

There are several other nuggets that are also worth pondering, printing, and pasting on your wall. But, I recommend you pick up the book rather than simply reading my favorite points! With the experience of her other work and the excellent beginning of this one, I'm quite certain it will be worth the read.